yeah i was thinking of getting my ob to write it down and seal it in an envelope and then bring it home and it's here if we want it...but then i was one of those kids that used to tear little holes in the paper of my christmas presents from family and friends cos i just couldn't wait till christmas morning and i had to peak...it's just too tempting. a lot of friends and family, including MIL and FIL have expressed that they would like to know the sex so that they can buy us stuff...i just don't know now...