HI we found out at 19 weeks, and while it was so clear the sonographer gave as an absolute definet answer, I have been having the what if it's wrong feelings.

Plus most of my family know, my sister blabbed to my dad despite the fact he made it clear he didn't want to know. My mum is being a royal pain and wants to now know what we are going to call him. she only has to wait about another 4 weeks. I keep telling her she needs at least one surprise!!!

I say stick it out, and it will be hard for a few weeks, but ultimatley for your families sake it's much better if they want to buy gender specific stuff to wait until your bubs arrives and see how big it is, and what it looks like. and if you want to buy something other than pastels, bright colours are less gender specific. Red, yellow orange green purple.