ps im not seeing her anymore im going to my local hospital instead...
Phew.
Wise move
You're 32 weeks! That's just crazy talk. Sounds to me like she wants to give you a caesar whether you need it or not so RUN away
Whether baby is breech or not engaged (I couldn't quite work out from your post) at 32 weeks it's position is still absolutely, totally irrelevant. It can and will move around alot for quite a few weeks yet.
I think you've made the right decision, good for you.