I had the same issue not with my Ob but with my m/w. She told me that I had a big baby and that I wouldn't be able to have a vaginal birth because the baby was too big to engage. She was so negative when what I needed was positivity and encouragement.

Well bub did engage and I had a vaginal birth without pain medication so drats to her.

Try to forget this Dr's uniformed opinion, I'm sure you and bub will do fantastically. I have my 6 week checkup tomorrow and I can't wait to rub it in to the m/w about how wrong she was (lol)

Spring xx