You made the right decision! Some Ob's just want the easy way out!! You need to get yourself to a better Ob for sure, someone who will listen to your needs. My Ob is very understanding and he knows I prefer a vaginal birth. I am however open to a caesar if the baby is in danger in any way but we won't know that until the day!

Good on you for making the right decision to change, I'm really proud of you!