oh min... I am totally disgusted by that OB.

Jovie was my VBAC baby and with heaps of OB's at the hospital giving me reasons why I couldn't possibly give birth to her. I had a scan at 41 + 2 weeks which showed that Jovie was 10lb 11oz... in reality she was 4kg or 8lb 13oz... a reasonable size but no where near what they estimated her to be. They said I should have a c/s, that I was risking the strength of the scar.

In reality your uterus is amazing, your risk for a uterine rupture is the same as if you were having your first baby via induction.

I would definately phone the hospital or your GP and ask to be refered to an OB who is more likely to support a VBAC.