Sorry ladies, I had planned to gracefully enter the 3rd trimester messageboard but instead I am appearing with a whine...

I am confused, tonight ended in a big argument with my husband over a mars bar of all things.

I was repeating to my husband what I ate today.... and in that was a mars bar.

he snapped back " you ate a mars bar" and I said yes, you have a problem with that?
to which he did.

Firstly he said He doesnt know who can eat a WHOLE mars bar on there own.... (isnt that what they r intended for?)

anyways.. it of course was the day after my Gluclose test (bad timing I know)

He says he doesnt know how I can complain about my weight , stress about glucose and yet eat a "whole" mars bar.

I am confused at his reaction as he is happy to order pizza when it's his turn to cook, or eat ice cream and other crap stuff.

is the only difference he wasn't there for me to take permission from ?? cause that is how it feels.

it's not as if I just picked it up and didnt think of the consequences, I thought about it, re thought it and then picked up a lite mars bar (not that I even had chance to explain that)

I might be worried about gestational diabetes (due to weight gain) and upset about my pregnant appearance but does that make me in human ? I am allowed to give into cravings too right? I am an adult after all making adult decisions.

Am I missing something here? why is it ok to eat icecream , pizza and chocolate with him but not a "whole" mars bar on my own ?

surely I am not the only person who buys a chocolate bar and eats the whollllleee thing on their own.

it has ended in a really serious argument which I think is totally unjustified for the so called SIN I committed.