For pity's sake ONE mars bar? He sounds a bit OTT with that. I often have a WHOLE choc bar as a snack with lunch.

You sound like you're eating really healthily and well - I do wish men had pregnancies sometimes just to understand that cravings mean CRAVINGS and not "ooh, I fancy a choc bar, let's blame the baby." My DH was the other way around though; I went off chocolate and didn't gain much weight and he was telling me off for that when I was 3-4m gone, then complaining that the bump was really big a few months later. Ruddy men!

Hugs to you and hope he apologises soon.