hello- i know this seems a silly post in the 3rd trimester, but we've made it to 28weeks without finding out the sex of our baby. at the 20 week ultrasound dp was absolutely adament he did not want to know the sex and that he wanted a surprise. i wanted to know the sex, mostly cos i'm just very impatient. i decided that if it was that important to him, then we wouldn't find out. now...at 28 weeks.. he has changed his mind and wants to know. i'm not sure what to do. i feel as though we've waited this long that we should stick it out and not ruin the surprise..but then another part of me feels like i would be more connected to the baby over the next couple of months if i knew what it was iykwim...but it sort of feels like cheating..like reading the final page of a book when you're only half way through it..it's just hard as i got my head around not knowing until the birth and now i feel like he's totally thrown a spanner in the works..what should i do???