Mayaness since I nearly ruined a child's life maybe I need to clear some things up. I have nothing against nudity, if that's what you are into, fine. DD10 still undresses in front of her brothers, last night she was walking around without her top on. Soon when she starts puberty and develops I will not allow her to do that anymore because I would like to teach her modesty. I walk around the house in my nickers but I wouldn't wear a g-string in front of my children. To me it's like telling my DD to cross her legs when she is wearing a dress, heck, at school they need to wear bike shorts under their dresses. My initial reaction was to not let this little girl get embarassed, not about my DH and boys. Being already well developed for her age it could have been very awkward for her in what she was wearing, I didn't mind whilst in the pool but when they come inside to play, bending over etc. If I was going to put my family first I wouldn't have started this thread asking for advice.

Regards,
Dianne