I wish I had been more encouraged too, I ended up having the fight the school to stay ( I wasn't a bad student tho), they gave me "we don't think you will pass yr 12" bollocks. Never mind I was passing and used to help the English teacher with the students that still couldn't spell. The rude bustards thought I was on drugs I think (I did sleep alot in class), but I actually was very ill.

ANYWAY - I'm not sure where you are but there are alternative high schools dotted around. They are lots smaller and the kids get far more individual attention. DD's friend goes to one after nearly dropping out in yr 8 (merciless teasing/bullying), and she is really shining now.

Oh and get the Princess B'face book by Micheal Carr- Gregg, it's a darn good investment and terrific support. There are some tips on negotiating behaviours in ther too.

You're a legend for taking this on Fi