Wow SJL I didn't know your story and I already thought you were a great mum, now I think you're just amazing! You have done such a wonderful thing giving your DD a home when her own parents couldn't handle it. You deserve all the support in the world and those services are there for people exactly like you - who are doing their best to look after their kids and going through a tough time. Biggest hugs for you and we are all behind you..... a few words of encouragement for you here