Oh Kelly, I hope you find the strength to do what you know is right.. Sending you massive hugs.

I'm not married, and I've not got kids, but when me and my XP broke up, it wasn't on good terms (I'd found out he'd been sleeping with other women while we were together - all 2 and a half years) until about two months after we broke up. He started communications with me like I was a real person - he'd talk to me like I was a slave - and finally we started the whole dating thing. I met my DF on our 'break' but I already knew I didn't wanna be with him anymore. I started seeing someone else (which lasted all of 10 days) while on the so-called break and when we broke up, he's pouncing on me again. Again, we started dating, went to the movies, dinners out but I had honestly given up with him because I wanted to pursue things with my DF and see if he'd have the same feelings as I had for him. Then August 22nd 2006 my DF asked me to be his girlfriend, and the rest is history!

Sorry for my babbling! I guess I needed to get it out!
Sending you lots of hugs, lots of love and lots of prayers