Kel,
As a very new seperated person today is my 9th day, I am still unsure of what I have done but can see it has had positive effects on me and DD..
A friend told me that you know when you have to make the decision, I had no idea what she meant when she said it but living with the arguments and crisis at my previous address I knew the decision had to made.
ExH really made me feel like I had made the right choice when he accused me of "abandoment of the property and was going to have me charged with tresspassing "when I went to get some clothes.
Hugs hun it isnt easy but I feel so much better at the end of the day when I know I am safe and happy.
B