I wouldn't put it past him.the reason we split is becasue he cheated on me with a friend and i said " don't ever see her again if you want to be with me and he went to see her to tell her that he wanted to be with me and that he wasn't going to see her any more. hes already put his friends feelings above our relationship despite feeling strong enough to cut her out of our lives together. I don't think he will change his thinking because its the enviroment he was raised in with his dad and his mother agrees that aslong as its not done infront of our son, it won't impact on him.

I personally believe that it will because even though hes not seeing it happen, they stilll accept the behaviour as acceptable. That is not a social stigma i want him to pick up and none of them are really equipped to care for a child. They encourage stupid behaviour from russell and each other and make stupid comments. I dont know what to do. Its all very stressfull.