Hey mummycate,

I am assuming you are in ryde in sydney? well, if so, honestly i would be looking for a studio for you and your little one for now, till you get what you need and get on your feet. When i was in your shoes i was very lucky and had a good friend who wanted to share, so we got a decent place. But rent is soooo expensive in sydney - have a look on realestate.com.au. The department of community housing will also pay for half of your bond if you are eligilbe - which i assume you are. And you should be able to get an advance on your FTB.
Wishing you well, its horrible to be there but one day everything does get soooooo much better. I know, i have ben there.

BIg huge hugs xx