Hey Ladies.

Just a quick update to let you know i got thru the night perfectly may i add.
he called me at 11.15pm last night and wanted to "talk" as he was drunk staying at his mates as his being a VIP at the surf comp again today (so more drinking) i told him that i had nothing to talk about, that he has made it clear that we were over and that he should choose a day to come pick up his gear and move out! he then proceeded to tell me how F%$*ed i was and that i have gone "mental" and that i need help. I responded YES thanks to you i do need help!!! no hiding that.
anyway i told him that i was going as unlike himself i have a child to look after tomorrow! anyway doesnt seem his to fussed as he is heading to 2 festivals in the next fornight this sat he is going to Goodvibrations and next weekend is Future!

I called his mother and we are going over there for dinner tonight! i know she and FIL will be great as they adore DS.
im not to worried about my living arrangements as the house we are in atm, is my dads and we are buying it off him so to speak and i called him this morning and explained what is going on! he has told me just to pay what i can spare each week! money wise im also not that worried XDP is on quite a large wage and im working 1 day a week as a nutritionist/dietician in which i could go up to 3 days a week as there desperate but i dont want to leave oscar 3 days as i already find one day bad enough!
anyway ladies i just wanted to thank you for all your wise words and wizdom!!

I CAN AND I WILL DO THIS! tbh i cant see him coming back nor do i see myself taking him back! im over it. if im going to be a single mummy to my kiddies id rather do it ALONE all the time not just on the weekend, haa imagine telling oscar when his older oh on weekdays daddy is a good daddy on the weekends daddys a drunk! no thanks!!!