Thanks everyone!

It's good to get some advice from parents who have been there and know the situation I am heading into.

I have a bit more perspective now I think, and as much as I would love to go back to the UK for many different reasons (one reason being that I truly love Scotland where XP is and wish I could afford to live there myself!) I can see how it makes more sense to stay here and set up a stable home for her instead.

Hopefully her Dad becomes a bit more internet savvy between now and then so we can all keep in contact, but he still has my laptop so at least he can email. Unfortunately, it means that I am now without my own computer and have to use my parents'.

Just a few weeks to go until she arrives. She is my heart and soul and everything that matters and I am just so excited for her arrival.