I haven't read all the responses darling - but I would be very very very very careful about taking your daughter out of the country onto his turf...

If you take her over there he may choose to initiate legal action to gain some visitation/custody. He might seem like the nice meek type but I can assure you oncce the gloves are off things can get very ****eyed. If he was to initiate some type of legal action you would have to stay put until the case was heard - very costly. Plus he may gain some custody tha would then prevent you from leaving the country. Remember his relationship with his child is his responsibility not yours. If he wants a relationship with her he needs to put on his big boy undies and do it.

Please think about this aspect of it.

Otherwise - I would be using that money to help establish yourself.