I think you need to stop worrying what he thinks it's quite obvious he doesn't care about your feeling by the affair I doubt he's gonna change now and all that will happen I'd you will feel crap, I've been in this situation and I so hoped talking would make a difference and he would realise and love me again Or even just feel bad about what he did and make all those grand gestures to prove how much I meant blah blah blah you can't force ppl to love you or change

you are a strong women, get some irl friends to complain to and us girls here and don't waste the breathe on him he's just gonna try turn it on you to make him feel better and justify himself in his own head.....

You took the first step now keep on stepping