Bearmum, I am very sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing Jackson's story, it was beautiflul and very touching. I know what you're saying about people who are trying to make you feel better with their comments, but that's just it. They are trying to comfort you the best way they can. When I lost my son at 21 weeks two years ago, I found that people tried really hard to make me feel better (although nothing they said could bring my son back), but I was more disappointed with those that said nothing. I felt that they didn't acknowledge Joshua's existance and that really hurt. Two years on, the pain of losing my little boy is as fresh as the day we lost him, and it's incredible how the waves of grief just crash on you when you least espect it. Big hugs hun, and feel free to talk about your grief here on belly. This place has helped me enormously with my own grief.

Beata.