thanks guys

i know grief is unpredictable, right now im just getting through day to day. but i suffered a little bit of PND after DD was born, and so im worried im going to hit another 'low' point.....like i said, im just feeling very lost right now, completely stuck in limbo. im grateful that my DH and family are being so wonderful and supportive and patient, so i don't feel pressured to do anything anytime soon. but yeh, was just wondering what others had done, and how they got through it all...thanks for your replies