So sorry for the loss of your precious Clara, such a beautiful name. I wish I could take away your pain, it does get easier in time. I also wanted another child after losing Emmanuel and having that fear throughout your pregnancy is normal. I was classed high risk even though the odds of having another Trisomy 13 baby were 1/10,000, I'm not sure of the risks with cord accident, hopefully someone here will be able to offer you some information. I found talking about Emmanuel was my best therapy and I could only do that here on BB with people who understood what I was going through. Sometimes friends can feel uncomfortable to talk to you about your loss as they think they are hurting you more. Maybe once you are feeling a bit stronger sit down with your girls and talk to them about Clara and have a good cry together. Massive hun. RIP Clara.
Regards,
Dianne
Emmanuel born sleeping @24wks
Trisomy 13
I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful Clara, no words can take away the pain you feel....I wish it could...
Give your friends time, they probably think you may need your space and they may not know what to say to you, some of our friends were the same when we lost our son Riley.
The numb feeling will gradually ease but i don't think it completely goes, i think you learn to live with it.
You will know in your heart when the time comes to try again.
I hope i have made sense, I don't tend to write well.
Be kind to yourself, Fly free little one and watch over your beautiful mummy.
hun. RIP Clara.
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