So many different parts to this question but basically how soon is too soon...

After your last baby?
In your life?
In a relationship?

...to make a decision regarding permanent contraceptive?

We are both 100% decided that our family is complete (happy, content, ready to move past this stage) and DP wants to get a vascetomy but I have reservations because DD2 is only one, we are young (Im 25 so that is a lot of reproductive years left really) and have only been together a couple of years... But then how long do we wait?

Im the kind of person who accepts things as they are and makes the most of it so besides being sure about having no more children, I know I wont bother with regrets even if my feelings change but I dont want to do DP a disservice because despite him being the main one pushing for it, he is also the most disadvantaged personally by the choice. We are lucky, we have two beautiful girls and eachother and it feels right for both of us but but but... you just cant predict the future! Two years together does seem too soon particularly doesnt it?

I know in the end only we can decide but what are your opinions about child age, parent age and relationship age in terms of the decision about permanent contraception?