DD (15) went to her besties 16th birthday last night, movies and they camped outside in a tent, 6 girls and no boys.
All went well or so i thought, the girls parents i have known for 12 years and they have similar parenting rules as we do, so i never had a second thought about the birthday party until just now i was looking on fb and one of dd's friends facebook is public and i noticed she had a status "party time - need grog", i don't allow dd to drink so i went and asked her if she did not letting on i had read anything on fb. She said no but 2 of the girls snuck off and met boys and drank.
Im not naive and i know this happens and yes i did it myself but my predicament as a friend of the birthday girls parents is should i inform them of what happened as we have discussed keeping each other in the loop so to speak with the girls.
I do not like one of the girls much at all but i trust my daughter to make her own decisions and choose her own friends but hope she sees the light with this one sooner rather than later.
Enough dribble, would you tell the parents that the girls snuck off and drank???