Great that she told you, I would say be careful trying to get her to tell her mum, maybe just the suggestion or she may not tell you anything in the future?? I watched a few programs lately and it seems that teens do just want to lose it these days, and oral sex is on the same level as kissing.the trouble is they feel like they can handle it and emotionally they are'nt ready. The other thing that worries me is that if they go on the pill will they have unprotected sex? and end up with an STD or worse still AIDS (at the end of the day a baby is not the worst thing that can happen to you)!!!! or even remember to take it when they have too? my DD is 16, a friend suggest we put her on the pill JIC. She can't even remember to take her iron tablet, so I am sure if she took the pill a few hours late or even the next day she would'nt think it an issue and would consider herself protected!!!