Hello
I faced this delemia on the weekend just gone my 16 year old dd an invite to a supervised alcohol friendly 16th birthday!!! I ended up saying yes to the invite but with 3 rules I drop off i pick up and NO DRINKING we also told her we trust her and if this trust was broken things would change. She went her friends drank got sick and she came home told me how dumb they were and how drinking just causes fights (this is how party ended with police) This time it worked out ok but im dreding the next invite. I think if we drop off and pick up they cant get away with drinking without permission as we could tell. so if they follow a few limits and definatly NO SLEEPOVERS and give us reason to trust them then i think this is a good introduction to partys with alcohol.