EnglishRose, I am so sorry for your loss - 28 weeks, wow that would be hard. Here I am banging on about my own frustrations when everywhere I turn people have heart wrenching stories that really make mine pale in significance.

I think the most frustrating thing for me (and I would wager most of us feel the same) is that it is totally out of our control. I have done the things that I can to ensure that a happy and healthy pg will be achieved and so the rest is up to the universe ... I am a little bit of a control freak and so this is what annoys me the most.

This month however (and the reason for the post) was that for the first time since I had my son I have sore breasts. Not much of a sign I know, but I felt sure because I had this "new" symptom that it meant that good things were coming my way.

Anyway, from now I am going to smile put on a happy face, and get back to the charting, watching and waiting ... at least I have a few days to relax, and this month we are off to Cairns for a holiday, so maybe ....

Oh, and anytime any of you want to talk - I will be keeping a much closer eye on this forum as you have all been so wonderful to me. Thankyou