Hey Mel
Dont ever think that your experience "pales" against anybody elses because we've all been through pain - regardless of dates or circumstances, its still heartbreaking.

Im going to be thinking of you and following your story because Im really hoping that this is your month.
Im hoping that your holiday is just what you need to relax and let your body do what it does best

I guess the symptons are a good sign but like you said, its too early to tell. I myself am getting weird symptons. I woke up with a really sore back at the base of my spine, my breasts are sore and tender and my moods are swinging like nobody's business lol
Im feeling kinda nauseas too but then again, I could just be making it all with my mind.

Well I hope that all the ladies reading this thread get their good news, and get it soon. Because you are all so strong, I admire you all.