Jaimi,
hi and welcome, I have just gone thru my 3rd m/c in a row, and this time it has really cut me up! I really didnt think it would happen to me again, but it did. Im assuming that perhaps there was something wrong with my babies and nature did the right thing to take my angels away so that they didnt live a very bad life, I dont really know, but thats just how I try to think now.
Im sure you did nothing wrong by eating some soft cheese, I mean as Megs said, there are plenty of women out there that are always doing the wrong things and their babies are usually fine, it doesnt seem fair.
I know that when you go thru a m/c you think you're the only one in the world who goes thru it and it is so hard to understand why it happens to you, but then you come to a place like BB and you realise that you are far from alone and the support you get from others that have suffered the same thing as you is really great and helps out so much.
I was even getting to the stage where I just couldnt stand to know someone who was pg cause I was so upset about losing my bub, but that is something I am coming to terms with now. (my DP's sister and his SIL are both pg and that really hurts that they are)
Anyway, I hope you get thru this ok and that you may be able to get some results as to why this tragedy happened. I hope that in the near future that you will once again become pg and carry this one full term to become a H&H bub.
Best of luck and thinking of you,
Lindy. xoxo