thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss #2 April '08

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  1. #1
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    Nov 2005
    LA LA Land
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    Magda - I started having dark brown discharge when I was 7 weeks. Had an U/S done and they could see the sac but no heartbeat. They said it looked like I was only 5-6 weeks so they wanted to leave things as they thought my dates may just have been out. I knew my dates weren't wrong and just knew the worse was going to happen. I guess because I had had a previous loss (S/B twins at 30 wks) I just was optimistic any more. I had another U/S in 2 weeks and it had grown but still no heartbeat. I spoke to my OB about what options there were. He said D&C (which I didn't fancy - don't like generals), pessaries to bring on the M/C or just wait and see. I chose to wait and see. Light bleeding started and went on for a week. The morning I was due for my next U/S the bleeding was really heavy and filled pads even though I was sitting down. I started to decrease by the time I went to the hospital. I just knew that my baby was now gone and things would be over. The bleeding had stopped by the time I went in for my U/S and sure enough, nothing left. All clear and no need for anything further. For me letting the M/C take it's course was the right thing to do but everyone is different. And of course, if things hadn't have gone so smoothly I may have needed medical intervention.
    But this was me. Everyone is different.

    By the way. One cycle later I was pregnant with my DD no.1 and that pregnancy was smooth sailing (even though I was a nervous wreck half of the time).

    Good luck and big hugs,
    Debbie

  2. #2
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    Oct 2007
    Pennsylvania
    473

    Hi, still just 2wwing. Ugh. Although my boobs hurt for the first time in months.

    AngelBabies: hey girl! Long time no see. Hope everythings going well with you.

    Magda: let us know how you're doing, okay?

  3. #3
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    Jan 2008
    Melbourne, Australia
    1,395

    Girls - I don't know how to tell you this and I am shaking as I write but I am very weak and couldn't help POASing this morning even tho I said I was going to wait til Sat when AF is due. Anyway, I got a bfp - and it wasn't even FMU. I am only 12dpo so I guess I just need to wait til Sat to POAS again and then see how I go from there - day by day. I am very very nervous but totally aware that I could m/c early and even if I don't, my past m/cs have left me with a lot of issues about seeing u/s's with no heartbeat present. If all goes well and I get to see a heartbeat, I will truly feel this one's for real. I can't believe I am actually giving you all this news, I knew I felt strange and just had to know if it was in my head. Whatever happens, I am not robbing myself of the joy of receiving a bfp ...... finally! U all r the only ones who know besides my DH (not telling anyone else for the longest time) and I'm getting teary just thinking of how much you all mean to me and how grateful I am of ur support and strength. From the bottom of my heart - thankyou.
    Last edited by plc1805; April 29th, 2008 at 01:14 PM.

  4. #4
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    Mar 2008
    California
    1,665

    Congrats!! Sending you tons of I'm SO happy for you!! Just relax and enjoy every minute of it!!!

  5. #5
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    Mar 2008
    Arizona, USA
    35

    Jen~I am sorry to hear about your BFN and I hope you get a late BFP or AF comes and you can start again!

    PLC1805~Congrats-how very exciting! Yeah I love hearing about BFP's-it gives me hope!!!

    Tempus~I hope your sore bb's are a good early sign!!!!

    AFM~BD Saturday afternoon and again Sunday morning and one more time tonight just to be sure! I have soreness on my right ovary which is where my doctor thought I would O from so I guess that is good. I never got a +OPK though so not sure what's up with that! Oh well, we BD anyway and hope for the best! I guess I am in the TWW but feeling more relaxed this month...I just keep reminding myself to let go and focus on things I CAN control!

    BFP's and Sticky Baby Dust to all!

    MMTeacher

  6. #6
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    Oct 2007
    Hunter Valley, NSW
    624

    YAY. well done! I just knew you were going to get a BFP. Your temps looked so good.

    Guess the rest of us are just going to have to follow you into PAML. just don't get to far ahead okay. What a great early b'day pressie for you

    Now - take it easy, rest up and enjoy getting really, really FAT.

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    Melbourne, Australia
    1,395

    Thanks so much ladies - I too am praying with my whole heart for BFPs and sticky vibes for us all!!

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    Melbourne, Australia
    1,395

    Thanks mollycat - just saw ur post. If it's ok, I'll camp here for a while - not ready for PAML - don't feel like I belong there just yet. I hope I am allowed to get to the fatt-er stage - that would be such a blessing .

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