Thanks AJC, I'm feeling pretty confident about the prog levels at least And our FS is great, we have a lot of faith in him. At least these last couple of months have helped us feel like something is being done to identify what our problem (actually the problems are all mine, not DH but that's another story) is.

I do know how hard it is not to stress, I will be exactly the same as you are when I am pg again and yep I'll be worried about a m/c if the symptoms are the same as last time too!! Makes perfect sense to me. I just wanted to try and reassure you about the boob thing though - for me having sore BBs won't be any reassurance that everything is OK KWIM? M/S on the other hand will be (and again I know this isn't the case for everyone) because I had it bad for about 8 weeks with DD and only very mildly with the last pg and it went away altogether by about 9 or 10 weeks (which was round about when our bub died )

Glad you are feeling a bit better