Sharon - Congratulations!!! How exciting!!! I'm so glad you tested again so quickly and put us out of our misery hehe. Don't worry about keeping your old BFP HPT's - I still have the dozen that I did last September - so we must be normal haha

SP - You be selfish all you want, we all take our turns at it - and we are here to listen and support each other *hugs*. The whole waiting game, and not getting the "right" answers is so frustrating. I also sometimes spot after BD but I've never really had it looked into - I figured that we were maybe a bit energetic (sorry if that is TMI). I'd hate to hear what excuse my FS would give me for spotting, he'd probably make me wait another 12mths before I'm allowed to BD again, or something equally as stupid!

Leyla - I don't know much about vitex either, sorry. If you try it, you'll have to let us know how you go

Lalla - Hi there! Sorry that you have had to join us. Feel free to share or ask any questions. From what I have read on here, our bodies all react different after having a m/c, so I can't exactly say what is normal. I can only share my experience - and I did have a D&C but still had a lot of clots/bleeding and discomfort for days after. I guess it's also a personal decision as to whether or not you ask for a D&C. I wasn't given a choice, I was told it was needed otherwise infection could set in and so I didn't really question it. You might have to get in contact with your Dr and discuss your options?

Megsmum - Sounds like you had a busy weekend with the toilet training business!

Bun - *hugs* hope you are having a better day. I sometimes think along the same lines as you.... if I get another BFP - will there be any joy in it? Then I get sad thinking about the answer, and just prefer not to think about it, and just experience it when it happens. This whole m/c business is just completely unfair, but surely there is happiness on the way for all of us?

Jane - Good luck with planning your perfect engagement ring on Friday. Are you planning to test before then or wait? What day is your 15DPO? I remember the day we went shopping for my engagement ring. We got engaged on holidays in NZ, and when we called my mother, she said to my DH that he was not allowed to come home without a proper engagement ring on my finger, so we went shopping the next morning before our flight home

Bekz - I have everything crossed for you, and I'm sure your BT will come back just as positive as your HPT. Congratulations again! I'm sure the nervousness is normal

las - I always have varied responses with OPK's, and only once ever got a really strong line, and I've been using them for 3yrs. I figure if there is anything at all, no matter how feint, then that is good enough for me, and some cycles I can use them every day and get nothing, and yet get a BT back saying that I did O - so it is possible to miss that surge. Why isn't this TTC business an exact science? It would make our lives a little bit easier if our bodies had a way of setting off an alarm clock in our head letting us know when we have O'd and when we conceive, so we don't have to suffer in the TWW

Hello to everyone else, I should probably stop now, as I am saying too much as per usual!

Cheers
Belinda

ETA: Sharon - I can't believe your expected due date!!!