Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage/Loss April/May 2009

[plc1805]

Hi lovely ladies - have not posted in a while but i have been lurking and keeping abreast of goings-on. As always I wish you an absolute ton of extra special positive vibes and hope like no tomorrow that your dreams come true.

Just wanted you all to know that I am leaving BB (sad and sorry heart but know it is the right thing to do). If you can imagine the warmest hug imaginable it is being sent to all of you from me. Please PM your details if you would like to stay in touch.

Now, for one last time....... lovely ladies.

ohhh and issy... i got your message but i cant reply... your inbox is full.. dont you read your mail...

[coco1411]

whats going on, why are ppl leaving?

:yeahthat: whats going on??

[Cherished]

Sunny my little ray of sunshine I'm still here and you can pm me anytime anyway!

Hello everyone else xoxoxo

[sparkles-ttc]

Hi all
havent been on in a while as had such a busy week
sorry to hear so many people are leaving!!! good luck to you all

It my DD 1st birthday today so i have been very busy preparing things lol!!!

Well i am well seemed to have healed from the latest M/C and hoping my cycle returns as normal and look forward to ttc again, i am feeling very positive that things will be fine after my body has a rest.

i start accupuncture next thurs so will keep you posted
xoxo

[sallyk61]

Morning Ladies,
Sparkles - let me know how the acupuntutre goes! If Im pregnant I go next tuesday for some 'helping it to stick' acupunture and if not a blood test instead... Argh!!

Cherished - have you o'd and how are you feeling?? Hopeful tired and grumpy!!!! Just like I want to be feeling!!

[jackjack]

Good morning ladies.
Firstly just wanted to say a big thanks for all the lovely welcome backs I have received from everyone.
Tested on Monday and !!! So went to the docs on Tuesday and got bloods done, spent all afternoon on tuesday vommitting and then slept from 7pm tuesday til 7.30am wednesday, after a day of rest yesterday I feel much better this morning
My doctor called me about my test results last night and said that I like as if I'm about 5 weeks from my levels and that everything else looks fine. I have an appointment with my gyno next thursday so fingers crossed everything is ok.
Apologies for my lack of persies but I've gotta get to work, Just wanted to share my news.
to all

[LittleOnes]

JackJack - CONGRATULATIONS!!! that is such fantastic news I that you have a happy healthy baby at the end of it

AFM, I'm starting to get paranoid about getting preg again. The week I found out I was pg with daughter 2, my gorgeous step-mum was diagnosed with leukemia. First m/c I didn't realise I was pg so that wasn't an issue but now, with the latest mc last month, her results have come back really bad. I'm scared that if I get pg she'll get even sicker. I know it's silly and that I shouldn't be so superstitious (and by nature am not) but I can't help thinking along the lines of 'a life for a life'.

Anyway, off to Kindergarten for a special mother's day programme with DD2.

[ferrals5]

Morning everyone.
sorry to here some ladies are leaving good luck for the future.

Sparkles-ttc-glad your feeling better and you sound very positve that's the way to be have fun with your DD birthday party today.

Sallyk61-my fingers are crossed for you.

Jacjjack-congradulations on yourand to you.

Smallfryplus-Try not to think like that it's just a coincidence that your stepmum get's bad news when your pregnant try to be positve that the next time you will both get good news but i do understand how you feel i had a termination when i was a teenager and i wonder if what happened to my much wanted and loved abbi was some sort of karma for what i done back then.

Anyway i had my 6 week check after losing abbi and the doctor said everything is perfect i'm ovulating right now by the looks of my cervix and she wants me to take extra folic acid tablets and iodine as we had a baby with genetic abnormalities(more tablets) and a plus she said i have fantastic pelvic floor muscles after 4 kids ( those kegal exercises pay off) and she also said i would be very fertile for the next few months as i just had a baby so it dosn't take to long to get pregnant
well have to go i have house hunting to do

[Cherished]

Hello lovlies

Smallfry honey don't read too much into things, there are people being born all over the world at a larger rate than those who are dying so 'a life for a life' isn't really how it works, otherwise our population would be staying the same not growing You will get your forever baby and your beautiful step-mum will pass when it is her time.

jackjack that is just wonderful news!!!!! enjoy a healthy and happy pregnancy xooxoxo

ferrals4 All is looking good for you... we will be testing around the same time by the sounds of it

RhiChiChi Jen has left bb along with a few others... plc1805, shortcake goodbye and best of luck to you both xoxoox and boble my sweetie you know I love you, take care and PM me when you get your BFP!

Sparkles the acupuncture really is fantastic! You will love it.

sally I haven't o'd yet! POAS today and the OPK is+ I think so we will be bding again tonight

Hello Greenslw, charm,coco and everyone else I've missed

[Inanna]

Greenslw - good luck today I am thinking of you...

Jack Jack: Congratulations!!!!! WOOOO HOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[RhiChiChi]

Hey all,

Thanks for your reply cherished, I got a pm from Jen telling me she was leaving.... and some others.

Anyway, onto some persies.....

Greenslw - Awesome news! I hope this is it for you guys.... I feel like it has been a very long build up!

Sunny - for you

Sally - Can accupuncture help to regulate your temp? If not, what does he/she suggest you do?

Ferrals - I gave my Maybe Baby away as I had no luck with it & I had ferning all the time, so it was really confusing. Sounds like you have worked out when O was yourself, I hope you catch that egg.

Sparkles - Happy Birthday to your daughter.Glad to hear you are travelling well...

Jackjack - Woo hoo! Congratulations. I hope all continues to go well for you and bubs!

Smallfry - Your feelings are rational. It is hard not to think optimistic all the time. It is only a coincidence that your step-mum was diagnosed with her illness at the time of your loss. You will get your forever baby!

Hello to everyone else (I am not sure who is still around), but thinking of you all where ever you all are.

AFM - not too much to report other than I have the usual af/rb pains lurking. I will be on CD 28 on Saturday & I have the inlaws coming down from QLD for the weekend, so I hope the cow doesn't show her ugly head then...

[charm]

Jackjack congrats that is fantastic news I am soo happy for you.
Cherished we are both 3dpo lol and this month the wait is driving me nuts I feel very anxious.

[charm]

JackJack - CONGRATULATIONS!!! that is such fantastic news I that you have a happy healthy baby at the end of it

AFM, I'm starting to get paranoid about getting preg again. The week I found out I was pg with daughter 2, my gorgeous step-mum was diagnosed with leukemia. First m/c I didn't realise I was pg so that wasn't an issue but now, with the latest mc last month, her results have come back really bad. I'm scared that if I get pg she'll get even sicker. I know it's silly and that I shouldn't be so superstitious (and by nature am not) but I can't help thinking along the lines of 'a life for a life'.

Anyway, off to Kindergarten for a special mother's day programme with DD2.

Smallfrys sweetie your step mum's illness is out of your hands she probaly looks forward to hearing good news and no no your not being silly it's just something we are unable to control and pls don't blame yourself you just keep on the track of your ttc path that is something you can control and leave the rest to the universe take care pm me if you need to chat. xxoo

[coco1411]

WOO HOO!!! Congratulations hon!!! YAY!!!!

[Sunny Love]

Howdy all!

Its very quiet here now Still curious to know why ppl left all of a sudden.

CONGRATS JackJack! Fantastic news and im sure u deserve it!!

Selfish AFM quickly: Thought RB wouldve come by now, probably next few days........hard to judge when my cycles have always been irregular and more so since the d&c. My skin is clear (usually get a spotty chin at 'that time'), my boobs are changing (or do I want them to change more than they actually have?) but im incredibly moody and dangerous if annoye! LOL!! Im going to test tomorrow (day 25) and for myself and others in the same position.

Better go to school, to develop young minds.

[jackjack]

Thank you so much for all the congrats, i really appreciate it. i'm feeling really scared at the moment and a little worried as I'm always really sick when pregnant but have only been a little, could that be a bad sign??
smallfryplus- try not to relate your pregnancy to your stepmum, I'm sure it is nothing but a coincidence. Something as beautiful as a pregnancy couldn't possibly cause something so horrible.
ferrals4- Hope the tablets work and that you are pregnant soon. Good luck with the house hunting.
cherished1- good luck with the ovulating. I've been un-able to get onto BB lately how come all these ladies have left???

to all xx

[Greenslw]

Hi Ladies,
Well one embrio in and all things crossed
MY DP came for the first time and was stunned at the process, he was a little cranky later on but I think this is a bit much for him sometimes. MY HORMONES. but all worked out by bed time.
I wasn't going to tell anyone but told my mum (she doens't really count anyways).
Already feeling foggy, tired and seedy. I know it's too soon but this is a good sign cos that's how I felt last time.

So one 7cell embri, was 4 then by the time it went in it was 7-8 and starting to look like a blastacyist. (great news).

This time I've decided to do the mega strick ruitine of having my pesaries 12 hours apart meaning I'm so tired and feeling guilty for lying down in the evening for an hour. But last time it was a bit all over the place with my meds, and it didn't stick so this time I'm going to be a sargent major about it.

So go for my test on the 25th of May so TWW is a little more. Lets see if I can not test this time... Was stong last time but I'm feeling more inpatient already.

Happy Friday Ladies

[Inanna]

Sunny some people were not happy about being asked to remove pregnancy tickers in the TTC forums & they felt it wasn't handled as they would have liked.