thanks Mel... normally if it is "leftovers" sperm ( ) it is thinner in consistency (for us anyway)... and this was much thicker... but thanks for your reply - I do really appreciate it

seems like we are both on the same page with the "less pressure" ttc method. I know exactly what you mean about wanting to take some of the pressure off because that is exactly how we have been looking at it too... so far, so good