Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage/Loss July 2009

[ferrals5]

Not happy they still havn't found our probe (faulty gene) so i have been told it can take months to find it and then when they do it's 6-8 weeks for a cycle of ivf so it could be dec before we even start our cycle we could get pregnant natrually in that time and have the baby tested at 11 week's i'm going crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! what do i do my clock is ticking the medicare rebate is lingering over our heads i am so over all this bulll s##t i just want a break for once just one little break please someone up there give me a little help.

Hi to the new girl's sorry i'm not real talkative today but looking forward to getting to know you

[SuperstarMumsy]

Hi everyone,

I finally feel strong enough to come on here, I am currently on CD17 I think....god forbid I dont know what cycle day I am on....so weird. Everyone keeps telling me not to try this month but I say F*** them...sorry for the language but it makes me so angry. I think trying this month is the only thing keeping me sane with pregnancies and new babies all around me - ITS NOT FAIR!!! So I havent o'ed yet but the doc told me this cycle would probably be longer so I am not really concerned in all my prior cycles I have o'ed on CD14,15 or 22 so fingers crossed I do actually O. DP is off on a surfing trip on Wednesday so I have my fingers crossed I O and am in the 2WW before then - I figure something has to go right at this difficult time. I would prefer a 28 day cycle but a longer cycle has worked out better as DP will be back for some loving before O in our next cycle! Anyone else found their partners have been funny in the BD department. I was thinking it was just me being paranoid but he hasnt been real keen on doing the deed! He was ok once I was ready to have sex after the procedure when I wasnt in a fertile time but now seems a bit apprehensive....totally abnormal for him. Not sure if it is the MC or me?????

I really hope we have some BFP this month cos we deserve it, we all really do.

And what is it with smug pregnant people....they annoy the crap out of me....I get it isnt my fault she lost her baby (second hand advice)...true but some sensitivity at a difficult time would help! Some people have no idea...but then you have others (like you guys) that are so supportive!

[toomanyshoes]

And what is it with smug pregnant people....they annoy the crap out of me....I get it isnt my fault she lost her baby (second hand advice)...true but some sensitivity at a difficult time would help! Some people have no idea...but then you have others (like you guys) that are so supportive!

Our 3rd M/C was only a couple of months ago and I can not believe how rude DH family were towards us, no thought put into how we might be feeling his f'ing mother even told us I should have my tubes tied! I could have slapped her...And them beaming over their daughter (DH sister) being pregnant was a joke, ok its great for her but why throw it in my face again and again.....I want to get away from these people soooo badly!

My SIL calls weekly to tell me how fab her pregnancy is....not once has she asked if I'm doing ok or anything.

Some people are just total A holes

But on another note, I'm so scared about trying again...what if it doesnt work...what if it does. I dont know how long I can keep trying, I dont think I'll be strong enough to get BFN's month after month and I'm just as scared of a BFP...what if there's another M/C....sooo scared!