Morning girls.

Superstarmummy-I know what you mean i have had the same thing happen to me every one around me is raving on about the pregnancies how far they are if it's a boy or girl ect. without even thinking that it rip's my heart out and bring's all the pain flooding back in an instant and we have to smile put on a brave face i hate it the only thing that keep's me from going off my nut is that they just have know idea what it feel's like to lose a baby and if they did they might be more considerate to our feeling's so i don't think they relise what they are doing.
Also don't listen to other people on TTC this month you do what you feel you are ready for and if people don't lkie it don't tell them.

Tomanyshoe's-as i said to superstar unless these people have been in our shoe's and felt our heartbreak and pain they have no idea my SIL is pregnant and her baby is due 8 week's after abbi was and i refuse to see, speak or even be near her as she has been a b#tch to my mum as my mum wasn't happy for her when she told her she was pregnant as it was the day we were told abbi had no chance and we had to be induced the next morning and my mum was with me through it all and was heartbroken for us and my SIL couldn't see why she wasn't jumping for joy and swinging from the rafters for her.
I know it is scarey TTC again but all you can do is keep going be positive that you will add to your family and when the right little one come's along it will stick.

Givenuphope-give him some time men deal with thing's differently they tend to want to avoid the thing's that can cause the pain so just talk to him tell him that you want to have his baby more than anything and if it's ment to happen it will and at least you can say you have given it a good go i would never get over our loss if we dont at least try but don't pressure him he will come around.

AFM-waiting waiting and more waiting DH said last night if the pgd ivf is going to take 5mths like some are telling us he want's to try natrually while we wait i will talk to the ivf doctor on the 21st and find out how long it will be then we can decide 5 mths will kill my not ttc i wont be able to do it