Shoegal, I'm sorry to hear about your loss. I haven't been here long enough to know your story, so if you would like to share, i'd like to hear it. Did they give you a reason for not trying this month? I've had so many miscarriages, I didn't even go in for this one. I talked to my ob, and he said given all my experience with infertility and miscarriages he'd leave it up to me. We dtd (did the dance, not sure if you gals use that abbreviation here or not) last night, and since I had ewcm with a bit of spotting today I am going to go for it again tonight as well. Like I said before, I doubt anything will come of it, with our fertility issues, but it's worth a shot!
Many many prayers to you, and I hope and pray that you will be blessed again soon!