my Storey,

I actuall M/C at the end of march and on the hospitals advice decided not to have the D&C. the hospital i was at was very conservative and needed more "proof" basically that PG was not viable.
So got my doc to monitor Bhcg levels and they dropped normally was bleeding normally.So wasn't aproblem. any way 8 weeks after M/C started still had some spotting. so went back to my doc.


he sent me for blood work and U/S . Internal scan showed baby sac still there and completely in tact. (that was wed) was in hospital on fri but they couldnt do me so had to go home and wait till monday. went into day surgery at 3.30 after being there from 10 oclock. got to go home that night and i just slept. anyways the next night tues night got really bad cramping but hospital said it was normal so i suffered through them for about 5 hours before falling asleep from exhaustion.
went to work wed morning only to be treated like i had inconvienced my upline to the max. that really didnt help. more cramping wed night and no pain killers. decided to go get pain killers from local hospital , only to be sent to hosp where had the d and c. they decided they wanted to do internal obs on me cos doc was worried about pain level i was dealing with.

so im in ER and the doc dose her obs and says to me " im going to need you to stay for a bit. there appears to be something stuck in cervix, i want a gynae doc to assess."

thats fine just thought it was a bit of tissue that got itself caught up.

Gynae doc comes down takes a look , after some poking and proding , they agree that it is the gest sac stuck in my cervix. i was having contractions trying to pass it but had no hormone to dialate my cervix cos it was atrifically done for D&C. hence the pain i was in.

so at 3 in the morning in the ER behind a pink curtain they popped the sac which was still intact, full of fluid, stuck what was left of my baby in a jar for processing and sent me home.

They werent able to tell me what they had catually done during the d&C and why they missed the sac.

I went to work that day cos it was end of month and needed to be there for it. anyway i went from ok with everything to taking leave from work and decideing not to go back in under a week.

I am so confused and hurt and tired that im not function, i loved my job and my life untill 6 days ago, now i struggle to get out bed and get motivated.

I like the idea of the milestones. i know that it was a relief whn the Bleed stopped after D&C .I am interested in any methods of regining stabililty that you girls have used.