Maz - Nice to have you in here darling. You're definately in the right place. I think everyone deals with it differently. Mine was 3 years ago, and i'm still dealing with it, but i think that stems down to the fact that i haven't had a pg since, and i don't have any other children. In my mind, that could have been my only chance. Part of this is why i'm on a break and losing weight, to see if that is the cause of my 'unexplained infertility'. I have good days and bad days, the only difference now compared to when i had my m/c is that the good days now outweigh the bad days. But as i said, everyone reacts differently and i hear you on feeling guilty....i feel that every single day and i don't think it will stop until i actually can hold a little bubba of my very own in my arms.....xxxxxx

Sharon - Do you think that your spotting could have been implantation? or a breakthrough bleed?....have you done any HPT's to see if you are pg?...i hope so..xxxx