Hi Maz,

I read your other post in the other thread and my heart went out to you. Welcome and I am sure you'll have heaps of great convos in here, the girls are all very lovely.

I am "getting in tune" at the moment Maz. My first m/c was a surprise and I really did not feel overly upset about losing it becasue I had a newborn and it just wasn't the right time for us, however, I did get really upset about it a few months later. The last m/c was more upsetting because the pregnancy was planned. In saying this as soon as I got pregnant I started to have second thoughts about how I would cope with 2 under 2. Now I feel like I really need to lose some weight (5kgs), do some strength excercise (back and pelvic floor) and just chill from the stress of actively TTC. So now I am temping (I find this so useful even when not TTC), exercising (walking), watching what I eat and just relaxing for the next few months. We will actively ttc in June, but if things happen in the meantime so be it.