Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss October 2007 ~ #2

[Lee]

Hi all,

A real quick one........sorry........

Did my last hpt this morning - negative - and I think af is on her way....... I'm ok about it. There's always next month.

Satya - good luck with your results - I'll check on you later, but I think this is THE ONE thats coming home to you

Claireabel - great to "see" you........ you were so kind to me........ and I'm wrapped to see your ticker!! How have you been feeling?? Come back again!!

Be back later........

Lee xoxo

[treelo]

Georgi its up to you hun, when you feel ready then its ok. The nurse at the hospital told me there is no medical reason why i had to wait for a cycle so i started trying. They say you are more fertile straight after a D & C so if thats the case i would get straight to it. I never had a D&c the second time and here i am still trying....

best of luck
hugs
treelo

[AnnaBelle]

Morning girls,

Well I don't have much to report just had another morning of higher temps so that is great i am on cd18 so i am sure that ovulation has occurred - bit depressed that we have not bd very much at all this month due to DH shiftwork and mood detroying stuff like getting your car towed!!

Anyway I guess as they say it only takes one little swimmer!!!

STARRYSKY - Thnaks fo ryour advice on the OPKs - lare you agoing to test again soon - good luck if you are

Lee - sorry to hear that you got a BFN this morning - you sound great though very positive - so i think such a positive attitude is half the battle

Hi Penny - nice to meet you - look forward to geting to know you too!!
i am the same too - I don't have the guts to test until AF is due cause I just don't want to get my hopes up IYKWIM

treelo - any news yet ??? Thinking of you

Georgi - hello there - I agree with treelo whatecer feels right for you is the best guide for when to TTC again - my OB said to have one AF after my m/c and that was really to ensure that all had settled down and for dating purposes for the next preg. Bet of luck to you

To satya, claireabel, lizjessie Big hello to you too

From AnnaBelle

kiwigirl - hi i think i have chatted with you before - thinking of you at this hard time - i am sure your Dh will be a great support when EDD arrives

[Acria]

Hi everyone..just felt like I should post, lol. I never really posted much in this thread, mainly stuck to the TWW thread for some reason. I'm feeling a bit like Satya, not quite ready to fully leave this area behind and dive into PAML.

Satya - hope your test results have come back fantastic for you.

Treelo - how are you going? All is well I hope.

In regards to OPKs, I think it really depends on the length of your cycle..and to start testing a few days before you expect to O. Not certain though...

Hope everyone is doing well, and having some of the lovely rain we've just had here.

Lisa xx

[ElleJay]

Starrysky - Yeah, I've been around - I think I'm suffering my depression rather harder than usual - I've still been on here though! I need to pop more I think

satya - Been hiding under a rock I feel like I should be - I feel like I am such a burden to everyone.. I'm so happy that your UTD! It couldn't happen to a nicer lady! I know how much you want it too! How'd the blood test results go?

Georgi - I was told by my doctor to wait for a month before we TTC again (though we haven't been doing it at all!) but it's entirely up to you - I'm so sorry for your loss - I wish there was something I could do for you!

Lee - So sorry that you got a BFN - I'm hopeful for you! If not for this month, for next month!

AnnaBelle - Hiya! That sucks that your car got towed! And that DH had shift work - something I'm gonna have to get used to with my new job!

Acria - I'm so hopeful and positive for both yours and satyas pregnancies!

[treelo]

Evening ladies,
Have had nothing but bfn over the last few days, i think Af will be here soon, i have the headache and have some slight cramping every now and then...so not looking good for me.

sorry for the short post, but have been at the football club since 5pm and im stuffed.
hugs
treelo

[satya]

Lee - sorry it looks like AF is about to arrive but it aint over til the fat lady sings.

I got my BT back last night and it was better than expected. I was 17 DPO when the blood was taken and I expected between 100-200 but it came back as 466. I was hoping for a good number and I got it.

Anyway, I'm going to head over to the pregnancy threads now but will drop by here from time to time to see how you are all going. I hope to see you all very soon in the PAML thread. Thanks for all your support since I joined this thread in March, I could not have done without all your support.

[littlescottishboy]

Hooray Satya!!! Good luck in the PAML threads. Hope we all see you there soon.

Lisa - congrats again! Pleas send us all some baby dust.

Lee - sorry you got a bfn but i hope it was just too early to tell!

Treelo - sorry AF seems to be on her way. What a cow.

Speaking of the cow, AF showed her face here (began spottting y'day and my temps are dropping)so i'm sticking around for the next month...i had the sorest BBs so i am guessing this is gonna be one helluva AF over the next few days. I am not too upset though, cos i didn;t get my hopes up this month.

Hi also to LizJessie, Annabelle, kiwigirl, starrysky, penny, georgi, clairabel and anyone else i missed.

lsb xx

[Lee]

Hi ladies,

Just a real quick update.......... af is here in FULL FLOW - and she's yucky!! I'm OK about it, I think I o'd much later than I thought.......... will be armed and ready to catch that eggie this cycle!!!

Hope all are well in here, will return later.......

Lee xo

[missbelinda77]

lsb & Lee - Sorry that AF has arrived for you both. You can be cycle buddies this cycle and announce your BFP's together!

[Penny]

Thanks Lizjessie and Starrysky for the encouragement - it's much needed and appreciated!!
Unfortunately I feel like AF is on the way... she's not due until Tuesday, but I am getting definite signs like feeling moody and having a huge blind pimple coming up on my chin - charming.
My naturopath got me to get a referral for a "Day 2 FSH test" from my GP. Has anyone had one of these done before and knows what the result actually tells you?
Anyway this is it for me - I will be of to a fertility specialist on thursday (I have had the appointment for almost 4 weeks as it takes so long to get in), I am sick and tired of stuffing around any longer... I am just hoping that he is nice and encouraging, otherwise I might just loose the plot.
Satya - good luck and all the best. Please pop in and bring us babydust!!
Annabelle - how are you going?
LSB, Lee and everyone else with AF - big hugs. Hello to everyone I have missed, hope everyone is enjoying the weekend!

[kiwigirl]

That's awesome news satya

Sorry it didn't work out this time lee & littlescottishboy

I made it through yesterday. I cried a for a little bit (not at the engagement party) - didn't help we had to pick up someone and drive right by the hospital. A couple of people had remembered including MIL which was nice.

So AF was also due on what was once my EDD in a cruel twist of fate. Went to the bathroom at a mall and had the teeniest bit of spotting and felt like life was having a laugh at me when I open the toilet door to see an about-ready-to-pop pregnant woman waiting. Meh.

Anyways, I made it through and today's a new day

Oddly, despite that one spotting, nothing since. Normally I don't get spotting before AF so I'm not sure what the deal is. Don't have any tests at home and have no symptoms so I'm guessing AF will turn up later today.

[Penny]

Hi Kiwigirl,
It would have been such a hard day for you yesterday - sending you a huge big

[AnnaBelle]

Hi guys,

Busy busy weekend - so just a hello there.

kiwigirl - you did very very well - proud of you - now that momentous day is behind you - things can only look up - gosh what timing to see that preg lady
I can empathise with you on how that would feel -

hey penny - i am fine you sound good - FSH i know that stands for folicle stimulating hormone - that is all i know about that one - good luck with the FS - love to hear how you go


acria - hope you are going well xo
to lsb, lizjessie, satya,lee & treelo

Hi to everyone else i have not said hi to today!!!
Love this group
Love it even more when we all get together at PAML very soon.
Hugs
Anna

[kaib]

Hi all,

I thought I'd just pop in quickly to say 'hi'. I've done a full post in the TWW thread even though I'm not in TWW at the moment. I'll pop in again in a few days to give an update after I've been to see GP to see whether I need to go for a D&C. Thanks to everyone for your thoughts & posts whilst I've been away in Sydney with DH for the last week. All I can say is is that I'm glad to be home. I will forever associate our holiday in Sydney with 'second miscarriage' & bad weather, even though it is a lovely place. Now have to go & get ready for work for tomorrow - I don't even feel like I've had a week off.

[AJC]

Hi

Have been visiting belly belly for months & have finally decided to join. Hope it's ok to join this thread.

Brief History: have had 2 miscarriage's in the last 12 months, first was actually blighted ovum (Oct 06) and second was missed miscarriage at 9wks (Sep 07). Have undergone a number of tests (doing some more over the coming weeks) but they all say that I am fine. Have a fabulous ob/gyno so am looking forward to getting these tests over and done with and hopefully it will be third time lucky for us.

Hope to get to know you all soon - although do hope our time in this thread is brief.

[satya]

Lee - I'm so sorry AF arrived - your symptoms sounded so positive - maybe you conceived but it just didn't implant - that would explain it I think.

[Georgi]

Hello!!!

AJC - Welcome. I have just joined in here too. You'll settle in just fine. Yes, I hope all our stays are short & sweet. Sorry to hear about your MC's but glad to hear all is ok. I'm sure the next PG will be a sticky one

KAIB - A week off just isn't enough is it. I hope your day at work isn't too gruelling.

KIWIGIRL - I hope your ok. Today is another day

PENNY -

LEE & LSB - Sorry to hear AF showed her ugly head. Let's hope this will be your last, for nine months or so.

SATYA - Congrats on your BT results. I hope you have a wonderful pregnancy. All the very best to you

TREELO - Sorry about the BFN, could it just be too early??

ANNABELLE - Yes you only need 1 swimmer. DH & I didn't bed that much before I got my BFP, I was sure I hadn't done it enough but whammo.

ACRIA & LJ - Hope you are doin well.

As for me, I have a f/up apt with my Ob on Wed so I'm going to ask him if it's ok to TTC this month. I reckon he'll say yes as it seems most people here that have had a D&C have said yes. I just wonder if i'll have a normal cycle. I took my temp this morning for the first time since I got my BFP and it was still quite high. I wonder if it is cause it was hot here last night or because I might still have PG hormones goin on. I guess the next few weeks will tell.

Last Friday, I ordered some LC OPK's cause I want to be sure if I do O or not this month. I haven't used them before, so this'll be fun..

Have a great day everyone!