Jen.... see I just cant do that competition thing... DH is not competitive... DH is a stubborne thing... hes more likely to do NOTHING... just to prove some point he will make up in his head........I grew up with my mother telling me I m the most stubborne person she had ever met... and she was pretty much on the mark however I prefer now to call it determined..... BUT I certainly met my match with DH.... in comparison to him, i m easy going.... there is just no room for 2 stubborne people in this house... With him... tell him something he will do the opposite...... Just becasue

Having said that.... After time you learn how to ummm work with that