Oh, smilanatu... People need to learn to open their ears and keep their mouths shut! It's amazing that the ones you think will offer the most support and understanding, are the ones that hurt us the most! I'm so sorry for her lack of support! She's obviously never had a m/c, so she shouldn't even offer any advice as to how you would/should cope with it! Go sock her up! ( j/k) Sending an unlimited supply of just for you!!