Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ May 08 #2

[AJC]

plc and Angelbabies -

Acria - hope you caught the eggie last night. GL and hope the tww flies....ending in a BFP of course.

LizJessie - hope your feelings are right and you get that BFP! When are you going to test?

jen - you are soooo good to know everyone in here! Hope you caught the eggie too. Sounds like it must have been hard dealing with DF's ex. Krystielove, same with you & your ex - good that you can be civil but I think it would test your patience at times.

mollycat - sorry about the crazy cycle. Hopefully doc can shed some light on what is happening.

mmteacher, lizjessie, mel, jenushka, krystielove, acria & plc. Thanks for the congrats.

Enjoy the rest of the weekend everyone. Hugs and Babydust for everyone!!!

[issy02]

angelbabies and plc -

Hope you both have a wonderful day, may this be the year that all your dreams come true!

To everyone else - a big hello and for all.

Issy

[Abbey B]

Congrats to you too AJC.. Aww i get so excited when i see that people get a positive result. I dunno why, it just makes it seem like there is hope for the rest of us

[plc1805]

Sorry guys just a quick post to thank you for my bday wishes!!!! It's been a lovely day so far.

Jen - u da QUEEN when it comes to knowing the list of names!!!!

wishing everyone loads of love and luck!!

AJC & Canary - just so so so PLEASED for you (these backflips are exhausting me!!!! ) - well done!!

Who's BFP is next?

[Acria]

Krystie - thanks Had a lovely night and looking forward to another one!We call them Apple and Mandarin, as I have a tree for each of them, an apple tree and a mandarin tree, obviously Cherry is very cute!

LizJessie - hey there! Yeah, we're still TTC, though we did have a big break and have just started again. This is the first cycle since the break. Hopefully all goes well. Your positive feelings are a good sign. Lots of women say they feel certain cramps or tight feelings when they're pg, so yours don't necessarily mean AF. Fingers crossed. I hope you're doing well

Mollycat - sorry to hear your body's being such a nuisance. Definitely a good idea to talk to the gyno, see what's going on. Good luck.

Jen - Yay for the big O indeed! Only now I'm confused because last night I was sure I felt the O pain in my left ovary, and now tonight I'm sure I feel it in the right one!

AJC - Thankyou I'm hoping exactly the same! I have HPT at home at the ready..hoping everything just goes to plan and smoothly this time around. I know it will for you, I have a good feeling about you!

As for me, just got home from work and had a lovely tandoori chicken sub from subway! I usually get the pizza but with the salami..well..better safe than sorry I suppose. Got some BD in last night..and will tonight as well..though might need a little extra motivation I just have a not so positive feeling..as much as I'd like things to happen this cycle..I just have a feeling it's not going to. Hopefully I'm wrong, must keep my chin up and a positive attitude

Lisa xx

[issy02]

Hi ladies,

Well, im having a bit of a down day today. I feel a bit sad that I have been ttc for nearly 3 years with small success' that were taken away too quickly. What sparked this? I found some photos of my u/s with DS today, one from when he was 10wks and one at 20wks. They were also with photos of my pg belly at 7 months. I was sitting there on the bed looking at these photos and I just couldnt remember what it felt like to be pg, it seems like an eternity ago. I kept thinking....its just been too long. I just cant wait to see that little jelly bean bouncing around the u/s screen again or seeing its perfect little tiny little body wriggling around at 20wks. I know I have to be patient but it just feels like its a hopeless quest sometimes.

So now im sitting here on my bed, writing this with an avacado and yogurt face mask on, munching on rocky road chocolate and sipping on a glass on cab sav. Naughty I know....since im supposed to be looking after myself, especially since ov time is just around the corner.

Does anyone else just feel like its never going to happen? Like they are never going to see those two magical lines appear on the white stick again?

I do. Most of the time I manage to look on the bright side of things, but every now and again the light fades and im left in the shadows. I dont know if its the longing or dissapointment that hurts more.

Ok enough of this....more chocolate and wine should do the trick

Sorry for the crappy post,

Issy

[Acria]

Issy sweetheart, I'm so sorry you're feeling down. It's not easy, I know..and it must be difficult sometimes to keep a cheerful demeanour about TTC. You're such a strong, wonderful woman though. You're certainly not the only one to feel like it's not going to happen for you, I think a lot of us who have suffered losses have felt that way. It's compeltely normal to sometimes be a little taken by the negative thoughts that lurk in the back of your mind.

Also, don't beat yourself up over treating yourself to some chocolate and wine. A little bit certainly isn't going to hurt, and if it makes you feel a bit better, well then it's done some good So enjoy that wine and chocolate, let the face mask do it's thing, and treat yourself really well. As I said you're a strong, resliant, loving, warm, caring and beautiful person! You have every right to feel what you're feeling, and to take good care of yourself (including special treats!). It is going to happen for you, and when it does, you're going to make an absolutely fantastic mother!

Sending you all my warm, comforting, soothing thoughts. Sweet dreams.

Lisa xx