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Thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ November 2006

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    Wow this site has been busy today. Trying to catch up on whats been happening in here.

    Missy Congratulations on your bfp. Hope your cold gets better soon.

    Aussienic I completely understand how you are feeling. This ttc can be so draining can't it. I feel the same way atm. Always wondering when will it be my turn etc. Anyway we need to keep positive and know that it will happen.

    Amym hi, thanks for your g/l wishes. I promise to post here tomorrow to let you know my results.

    Chicken I hope you are feeling better soon and Sam too. I had to laugh about what you say about af changing her name. I felt the same way last time too.



    Shan I want to take you up on that offer of being next with a bfp. I'm sure there are others in here who feel the same.

    Hi to everyone I have missed.

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    OOOh Hope, very good sign!!! Let us know asap how your next test goes. GOOD LUCK!!!!

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    hiya everyone,

    Just a quick one before I get dinner organised,

    Missy I am so excited for you, I hope that line gets stronger and stronger, your poor DH being under so much stress at work, I hope it calms down for him soon.

    Lisa you poor luv I know that if you are not posting you must not be well, I am sending you lots of hugs and heaps of get well vibes, hope you feel better real soon hun.

    Hi to everyone else as I said just a quick one this time I am running way to far behind boohoo and now I must get dinner on, oh yeah I caved and did another test this morning with fmu and ijt was a deffinate BFN no line at all not even a feint one so I am thinking that af will be here on monday and then we will start again.

    have a lovely night girls I might pop back in after to check in on ya's
    bye for now

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    Ooohhhh Missy!! We can (hopefully) be belly buddies!!
    I'm still feeling very hesitant at the mo. I did another test just now and it came up positive too-- so I guess I am officially "duffed" (for now anyway!). Sorry for the cynical side remarks but I'm not feeling that confident about the whole thing. You'll all be stuck with me for quite a while yet as I'm so not ready to leave!!! Thankyou all so much for your lovely words and enthusiasm. It's really nice to be able to tell you guys and not feel any pressure or expectation-- I'm so scared about eventually telling the family as I don't want them to worry and I couldn't handle that feeling of letting everyone down again-- that's the wrong way to say it but I know you guys all know what I mean. Our bub will be the first on my side and I know my olds are dying to be grandparents, my sister an aunty and my bro.s uncles. So what I'm trying to say is THANKS FOR BEING THERE GIRLS!!!
    Lou-- Aunt Flood-- I love it!!! Does sound painful though!!
    Kez-- It sux! I was so hoping we could all be paranoid together??!! You won't be far off and hopefully I'll have words of reassurance up my sleeve for you!
    Lisa-- It's not over til the red lady sings! I've still got everything crossed. You've been a great support.
    Shan-- Don't be afraid to nominate or wish for yourself!! Why shouldn't it be you?? I can't think of a reason!!!

    Must run-- Dinner with my Dad and bro.

    Mwah to all. xoxo

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    Hi Girls
    I hope you don't mind me joining in. It's been 4 very long weeks since losing Max and we are unofficially TTC again. I have absolutely no idea when AF is due, but I do know that I ovulated on Saturday, so sitting about 5DPO today. As far as symptoms go, I have been having nausea since Saturday night, left sided stitch pain, cramps, and tingling boobs. I also had some very light spotting last night, so here's hoping it's early implantation.

    Congratulations Hope and Missy on you BFP, sending lots of sticky vibes to you both.

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    Congartulations Missy and Hope. When you feel ready come and join us in PAML.

    Clare good luck honey.

    Lisa hope you are feeling better and that nasty AF stays away.

    Sending everyone else lots of babydust.

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    Its been a little while since my last post but I have been lurking in the shadows ladies,lol.

    Missy & Hope - Wow, Gr8 news Congrats to you both. I'm sending heaps of your way!!

    Clare- I have everything crossed for you too. Let there be another BFP here, hopefully someone else here will catch it! LOL.

    Lisa- I hope you're feeling better soon. You never know what you've had may be implantation bleeding. that it is....

    Mako - Dont forget to let us know how you went with your testing okay! I'll be checking back tomorrow, as usual. Might be Congrats in order, that would be gr8.

    Not alot happening here, Dh has gone away for a couple of days on business and Im hoping that ov wont occur in that time!! But it may have already. I have absolutely no idea where Im up to atm,lol. Because I had the early m/c and have decided to start trying again right away. Oh well if I do get a BFP-YAY but if I dont at least I'll know where Im at! Wont I.

    Back tomorrow.

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    Hello? Can I join in? I'm new, intro posted in another thread. I'm 9DPO (I think - haven't been charting). How soon can you POAS? The wait is eeeeeendless...

    Congrats to Missy & Hope. Wishing for BFP's for everyone else!

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    hiya gals!

    Hope everyone is doing well and working hard to get that bfp.

    Hope - I am so happy for you but I totally understand how you feel. I really hope that this is it for you hun - sending you all of the worlds sticky vibes

    Missy - you too sweets, hope this little one is a sticker!!

    Lou - im so sorry hun for the bfn and everything else! Ive been sick as a dog this week so I know how you feel. Onwards and upwards hey!

    Amy - hi sweets oh gosh those bfn's - hope yours turns into a bfp though!

    Hindonly - big hugs to you - we are in the same boat, first cycle after an early m/c - I too am thinking oh well at least I know things are back to normal. But I tell ya, its getting so hard to stay positive! Together we'll get through

    Mako - any news??

    Cilmum - hi of course you can join us hun. Some tests can detect hcg as early as 10dpo, but sometimes thats a bit early. Good luck though hope you get a nice bpf.

    princess - tell me about the time! its all so fast but sooo slow. I hope you get the bfp!

    clare - hi sweets, I hope you dont have to wait too long for a bfp. Hope your doing ok otherwise though - sending you big hugs - your such a brave woman and in sure you will be blessed soon.

    Milly - no probs about the email - glad it brought you some hope. Im really praying that everything works out for you my sweet. When is your adoption appt?

    Michelle / Nola / Megan - thanks for popping in my loves - keep spreading that baby dust in here!! I need some extra strength dust I think.

    Im so sorry if ive missed anyone - but htings are too hectic in here.

    Me - still no real af..grrr... but having some brown stains when I wipe. So hoping im not pg again - i dont want another pg that is doomed from the beginning. I want nothing on the loo paper when im pg, nothing but normal cm. But in all honesty I really think af is just gearing up. I havent tested - yipee for me being so strong.

    Im over the flu now but still a bit tired. had my BIL bday tonight which was a bit depressing as I was pg and vomitting on his last bday (mind you i didnt know I was pg!). So another year gone by and no baby or baby bump. Sorry gals just feeling a bit down atm. Hope to be back to my normal self once af comes and goes.

    Hope your all having a wonderful night

    Lisa

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    Well, tested with an equate and there is a faint line on there too. I also took another IC and it is only a little darker than yesterday. I am still very hesitant but I try to keep telling myself that 3 tests can't all have evaps can they? I know they came up in the time limit but they didn't get real dark until it dried. It's just taking time to sink in. I just don't want to be wrong and get my heart totally broken so I'm taking the conservative approach. I am going to test with 2nd MU since yesterday I got a darker result from that. I also drank a lot of water last night before bed and had to pee extremely bad this morning so it could have been fairly diluted.

    Hope-I hope we are both belly buddies! I really don't have any advice since I'm feeling very similar to you.

    Is anyone testing soon?

    Lisa-Keep us updated on the spotting. I hope you get the answers you want.

    Mako-Any news yet? How many days til AF?

    Well, off to the dentist with DD #1. AH, the joys.

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    Great news Hope and Missy!! Only one week behind me, and i know exactly how you feel re: the hesitation and nerves!!

    Lisa i hope you are feeling a bit better!!

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    good morning everyone,

    I hope you are all feeling great today.

    Lisa I just want to wrap my arms around you and give you a huge hug, I hope you are feeling a little better today, and you know we are here if you need to vent or anything at all. love to you sweety.

    Missy I think you could be right I cant imagine you getting 3 evap lines, I do understand the hesitation, I think its a happy and scarey time for all of us when we see a BFP.

    Cilmum yeah you are certainly welcome to join this wonderful group of very lovely ladies, its great to have you here.

    hi to everyone else I hope you are all having a lovely morning, I will try to pop back in today to check out some posted test results hehe,
    but if I dont make it back on over the weekend I hope you all have a wonderful weekend *and dont chat to much in here cause its to hard to catch up * LOL JJ I am sure I will be fine catching up on all the posts.

    Luv and babydist to you all
    take care
    *MWAH*

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    Good morning lovely ladies

    It has certainly become busy in here....hopefully I won't leave anyone out.

    Amy - don't you just hate those BFN's! If AF is due Monday, it still could be too early???? Happened to my girlfiend who just announced she was pg. Her AF was due Thursday she tested on the Tuesday with a BFN then nothing happended and got 2 BFP's on Saturday.

    Lisa - hope you are feeling better. The situation we are in makes us prone to remember dates/celebrations. I got one of my BFP's last year on Derby Day and last Saturday that was in the back of mind. And I know exactly what you mean about the spotting. During the same pg I had spotting up to when I m/c. I could imagine your fear. Could be a BFP though - maybe you should test so you can put your mind at ease.

    Hindonly - hopefully you have caught that egg!

    Missy - keep positive. Maybe you should get a blood test.

    Hope - how are things going?

    Cilmum - welcome to our group. The girls in here are fantastic and are so supportive. I'm relatively new here and always look forward to catching up and getting a pick me up.

    Clare - I hope you get a BFP this month. Your signs sound promising. Fingers crossed for you.

    Mako - any results yet??

    Shan - Lets hope WE ALL get BFP's next month. I backed Miss Finland yesterday, so that was a small bonus.

    Megan - glad things are going OK. Take it easy

    Princess - hope AF treats you well. She hasn't been my favourite person of late

    Milly - don't ever apologise for grumbling...it sounds like you have a lot going on at the moment. Sending you a big .

    Kez - where are you at?

    Hi to everyone else.

    YEAHHHHH - AF is over!!!!!! So it's back to square one. OK ladies I need some tips etc for a good lead up to the big O. Any new bd tips/positions that I haven't heard of ??? I am seeing my acupuncturist this afternoon who I haven't seen for a while. She is always great at releasing those frustrations/fears so hopefully I can start the cycle with a clean slate. I have started drinking loads of water and am onto pg multivitamins. Here's to a fantastic month for all of us!!

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    Hello

    Chicken, Missykg, LisaL and Hindonly, I have just spoken to the silly young receptionist at my specialist to get my results from Wednesday and she said "oh theres no recent results here for you are you sure you had a test on Wednesday"?How dumb does she think I am? Of course I would know if I had blood taken. The latest results I have for you are from 15/9/06. She then proceeds to tell me that these results can take up to a week to come in. I have always rang 2 days after test to get results. So frustrating. I will phone again on Monday and ask to speak to the other receptionist. I am having stitch like pain on my left side of abdomen atm and sore nipples. Has anyone else had this sort of pain before and if so what was it? I have had it for a couple of days now. It seems very similar to the pain when I had my cyst but that was on the other side.

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    Hi Everyone, wow you have certainly been chatting up a storm....i think I needed to make notes on everyone to do personals, but, ooopps, i didn't, so you'll have to excuse me today for not doing any.

    I wish all those testing that they will be announcing some BFP's and to all those who have just got AF, and those for have just had her leave, i wish you all the best for this cycle.

    I don't know what i would do without my TTC after M/C or Loss girls. I think we all keep the dream alive...love you all muchly...xxxx

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    Afternoon everyone

    Mako- I am sorry, but i couldn't help but laugh. The receptionist must truely be mad! How would you not know you had bloods taken? I would have offered to drive down and show her the puncture mark. But on a positive note, with both Shelby and Max I had a stitch pain (left side also) from very early after ovulation. I have it again ATM which is why I am sort of suspicious. GL

    The Chicken - Yeah to AF leaving, do you take evening primrose oil? Supposedly helps CM. I am sorry cant help with new positions etc. Not very inventive there.

    Missy - they are only classed as evaps if the line appears after the test limit. If the line is there before and just gets darker afterwards it is definately a BFP, don't worry sweet 3 tests wont lie. Don't forget it takes a couple of days for levels to double so you might not get a darker test straight away.

    Lisa - thanks for your well wishes, we are doing a lot better, each day brings new hope. I hope you are are feeling better real soon. I know exactly how you feel with the spotting too. My dream is to have a pregnancy that I can "enjoy". With Shelby I had my head down the loo for 32 weeks and 2 bleeds and Max, well that's another story.

    Cilmum- welcome, I am a newbie as well. As far as POAS goes, I had a +ve at 8DO with Max, but he had triploidy so HCG was supposedly very high. With Shelby it was 17DPO before I got a positive. You can start POAS whenever you want but go the cheapie tests for now and save the good ones until 12-13DPO. GL

    I am still feeling really seedy - nausea and this stitch pain in my left side are driving me mad. One minute I think I am pregnant the next maybe not. I am still occasionally spotting - definately nothing to indicate AF but very unusual for me.

    I went and had my eyebrows waxed today and have spent the last few hours looking for the skin she ripped off my head!!! Why on earth do we do this to ourselves, I couldn't imagine getting a brazilian :eek:

    Wishing everyone a lovely weekend.

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    Good morning all

    I have woken up feeling fantastic and I owe it all to my acupuncturist. I hadn't seen her for a few months with all the lap stuff going on etc but it was well worth the visit yesterday. She is currently doing a PHD in PCOS (very convenient for moi) and we were talking about when I may have got PCOS. She said research suggests that I would have got it after having Sam for 2 reasons. Firstly there was a bit of baby weight that I didn't get rid of especially around the tummy. Then there was my predisposition to diabetes. Apparently the insulin/genes just LOVE that extra weight hence the PCOS. So we started talking about my pgs last year and it dawned on me that each time I fell pg I had lost weight begore hand. This year I haven't lost any weight and have put on a few of those kilos I lost last year therefore no pgs. Plus she said the endo probably hasn't helped my O on the right side. We also talked about my M/C's and she thinks that the PCOS also caused them. When the body loses a bit of weight, some effects of PCOS are reduced but not all and that's why I have to go on metformin to control the rest. So from here I have to change my diet (no carbs after 4) continue with metformin and lose a few kilos in the next couple of weeks and hopefully I will get my christmas present!!! So I now have a new lease on life and started my exercise regime with 60 sit ups last night.

    I hope this all makes sense as it has taken me a bit of time to get my head around everything!

    Clare - thanks for the Evening Primrose tip. I will get on board!

    Have a great weekend everyone.

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    Lou-- That's great! You sound very positive about your new "plan of attack" which is also good. I think I'm going to have to try some sort of alternate treatments to reduce my anxiety and negativity. I know positive thinking can be powerful so it would be nice if I could do some!!!

    Mako-- Any news?? You must be going nutty!? Hope you have a busy weekend planned to keep your mind off it.

    Lisa-- How are you feeling? You are being VERY strong not POAS!! Good on YOU! Thanks a bunch for the stickyvibes-- I really need them!

    Kez-- What's happening with you?? Is AF in full swing or has she "left the building"?

    Hindonly-- Thanks for the well wishes! I hope I'm sending the same sentiments to you shortly!

    Cilmum-- WELCOME and Good Luck for this cycle! for you!

    As for me-- Not feeling too bad. What I like to call the vomit bubble has begun to emerge which means I'll be existing on Jatz from anytime soon. And something really wierd (well coincidental really) happened the day I did the 2nd test. I had dinner with my Dad and Step-mum and my Step-mum took me in private and said "i've bought you an early b'day present but I don't want you to take it the wrong way"-- It was a tree ornament of a stork carrying a blue-wrapped baby. She said it was for Good Luck!! God, I hope it works!! She has no idea how well timed that little gift was!!
    Happy Saturday!! BBL to check on you all.
    xoxo

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