Babyfever.... NOONE knows this pain until they have experienced it themselves. I have known many people who had miscarried before I did. I clearly remember my response to them...... I was uncomfortable and ignorant. I dont mean that in a nasty way i mean it in the true meaning of the word. I didnt know. How could I have. I had my 2 sons, bright, healthy, loud sons. I didnt know the pain of losing a child. I knew my sons were precious but I didnt know the pain of losing a child. I didnt have any of them sit me down and tell me what it meant to miscarry your child.... I was ignorant.

I m soooooo sorry for your loss, just as I am sorry for everyones losses, just as I am sorry for my own loss. You would think with the figure close to one in twenty pregnancies ending in a miscarriage that people would be better informed. But that is not reality unfortunately and until it is we are going to be surrounded by people who just do not understand.

If you google october 15th you will see whats happening to try and make more people aware........ until people know... we can not expect them to understand. I know I didnt.