Oh Pash. This is so unfair, i just can't believe this has happened to you. You really only deserve the very best and i feel very angry you have had to experience another miscarriage. Life shouldn't be like this. I'm not really a religious person but will be praying that it's not a molar pregnancy.

I just wish there were words to comfort you but i know the pain you're feeling is pretty impenetrable. Please know that even though we have all had different experiences, we have all experienced miscarriage, so understand as much as we can what you're going through and will be here when you need us. God, i'm just so sorry, i feel so sad.

Salt, hugs to you too, i really thought this would be your month. But on the other hand, i'm pleased your folks are doing so well. You've been through the wringer so should spoil yourself a bit this weekend.

Leyla - happy birthday fellow cancerian! Hey my horroscope a few weeks ago said promising things about babies and fertility, so i hope that's true for you too.

Belinda, i'm sorry about your friend. Have you called your FS and told them you're worried? I hope AF stops soon, it sounds draining.

Satya - sucks about your SIL. Some people (and i admit i was one during my first preg) just don't understand that not everyone will be overjoyed to hear their news. one thing m/c teaches you is to be more sensitive and compassionate towards others, as you never know what's going on behind closed doors. I hope she's not too painful! and even more so, i hope you can share some news with her sooner rather than later.

Shoegal - good news hon!

Sharon i can't remember if this has been answered or not, but no, the heating shouldn't affect your temps. at 16 degrees your body will be maintaining it's core temp, i think it's only in extreme circumstances that the air temp would affect your bbt.

Megs - welcome to the group, looking forward to getting to know you.

Megsmum, hope TTC goes well this cycle. if you do fall, i'm sure your doc can mmonitor your progesterone and give you pessaries to supplement it. good luck.

Lisa - woohoo! glad things are going well for you!

Bun, things sound very good for you too. not long now until your scan and i'm sure all will be good and your can focus on a lovely relaxing holiday!

TimNik - i have heard of the secret but haven't read it. i'm a huge fan of positive thinking though and visualisation. i practice what i preach (normally, this preg is doing my head in!) i find it's great while you're in the right headspace, but other times is very difficult... it's hard to think positively about a miscarriage for example, even though you might think positively about the future, it's hard to see any good that can come from losing a baby.

Your symptoms sound good, here's hoping!!

TTBP - could it be that you're going to ovulate late this month? i don't normally ovulate until quite late, up to CD 24... i hope the FS has some answers for you.

Shellbell, good luck with the results, and i hope you're spot on about this cycle.

Zionsmum - happy anniversary for the weekend! i hope it's a memorable one for more than one reason!

To all the other girls, hello!

We found out last night my cousin and his wife had to have an emergency c/s on monday at 32 weeks. their daughter is tiny, but alive. there are just too many scary stories out there, but i guess you don't necessarily hear about all the perfect endings.

Off to see a friend tonight who i haven't seen in ages. i'm dreading it. last time i saw her i was newly preg in my last pregnancy, and even though she knew i was TTC she was so damn critical of me wanting to have a baby. i don't know what her prob is. i haven't really seen her since and never told her about the pg or m/c, as i was worried she'd gloat. really don't want to go tonight but will, as DH is very good mates with her hubby.

Speak soon girls. Again i'm so sorry for the sad news around this place. Pash you are in my thoughts.