TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ April 08

[Emmy-Lou]

Congrats Trac....hopefully I might be joining you soon if alls gone well this cycle..

Hello to all..short and sweet i know but i do read your posts..take care

[Magda]

AJC: GL with O'g tomorrow.

Bettyboop: I am so happy op went well. You will see you will soon see a BFP.

Canary: You still have 8 days before AF shows. I did not show any symptoms that early so, it is not over until AF shows. I am rooting for you hun.

PLC1805: Yeah actually this friend has been mine and my cousin's friend since we were kids, she is like family now. But she definately is a very envious person always comparing her life to others. And you are right I need to avoid her like the plaque.

NicksterUK: Way to go you passed a milestone, I can't wait for that. I am so happy you get to see your baby on Thursday. Yeah!!!!

Trac73; I can't believe a friend would say something like that either you think that after so many years of knowing this girl and putting up with all the comments year after year, that this wouldn't bother me but it hurt.

Anyways, CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! I know you must be beside yourself with joy right now. May you have a very healthy and happy Christmas present too.

[Trac73]

Hello EVERYONE

Thankyou betty, plc1850, AJC,Jen, Fiona, MM, Tempus, emmy-lou, Madga for your best wishes and congrats it really is appreciate knowing that all you lovely ladies are out there supporting us all. What a great team we all are
Tempus - Looking forward to hearing your results and joining me with a BFP, we can go through this together.
Canary -As they sya it is not over until AF arrives

AFM - Well i have rang my parents and they are absolutely over the moon. LIke i said to my DAD this is a positive thing for our family and what a great Christmas bundle of joy we will have. My Inlaws are also happy. As for my sister well she is excited as she is not able to have anymore babies and she is pleased that we are able too . I have made my first appointment with DR on Tuesday to see what he says as i really want to be monitored well this time. I also want to know if it is too early to go to an OB yet? I am still amazed that this has happened as we forgot when i O'd this month let alone charted, it is amazing what happens when you are able to not focus on it look at me.

Hoping for more BFP this month

[Baby Angels]

Goodness me.... we started a new thread and no one covered it with dust yet......



Now Trac.... Huge Congrats

Nickster.....Ohhh girl I am soooooo thrilled for you. Twins.... well I loved having twins.... I spoke with both of them everyday. Believe me... my tummy was HUGE at 10 weeks and I sooooooo LOVE the fact that you have gotten past. Wait till you go shopping and look at the twin prams... or twin cots.... Ohhhh talk about mind blowing. I remember standing there infront of this twin pram just unable to move... just stairing at it..... Let me know as soon as you know.

Birthday Buddy..... hey its gettin closer girl.... I have to say I m starting to stress..... I'm 39 next month and I m stressin...... stressin because its like it puts me on the down hill to 40 without any brakes...... at 38 your still going uphill....39 and your now very quickly heading to the 40..... Oh well... I m sure I ll be fine....... just need to remember..... breath in..... breath out... breath in... breath out.... and keep repeating step one and two.

Hi to everyone else.... and best of best of luck to everyone

[Natty]

Hi Ladies

Trac - congratulations hun! Your friend must be jealous in some way to make such hurful comments.

Angelbabies - who was it that said 40 was the new 30? Your not over until its over. My Grandmother had my Dad at age 45 in the middle of the second world war and her three other children were 24, 18 and 16 respectively. You have still got plenty of time!

Magda - how are you going?

I have been feeling pretty flat. I havent really been feeling pregnant at all. No sore BBs, no nausea etc so I rang the midwife and they are now doing bloods to see if my hormone levels are going up ok. I wont know until Monday so I guess I am going to feel flat until then. I thought when I fell pregnant again I would feel so happy but all I feel is apprehension and I am so worried that I dont feel pregnant this time. I am going for a job interview on Monday for a job that is being developed for me and I keep thinking I will only take it if this baby doesnt stick and I hate myself for even thinking this way. I keep thinking maybe its womens intuition that I dont feel positive but I am hoping against all hope that I am just being negative and that everything will be ok.

Anyway, I better go. DD has tonisilitis so just wants cuddles (which is a really good thing for me!).

Hope you are all ok and that April sees lots of BFPs!!!!

[jen805]

tempus moriendi--Good luck on your testing! You're in my thoughts...

Natty--I know it seems impossible, but you really have to try not to stress right now! It's still early on, so it's probably very normal to not "feel" anything yet. I can sympathize with your apprehension, and completely understand that you just don't want to get your hopes up. For me, AF still kickin' and screamin', and I'm still apprehensive about how I'll feel when I do become pg! Sending you POSITIVE sticky vibes! Good luck on your hormone levels, and take all the cuddles you can get!

[Canary]

I am sitting here with a HUGE grin on my face,
Congratulations Trac!!

As for you, Nickster, that's so exciting- possibly twins- wahey! Of course, a healthy bub and a healthy you are the important things, so it is great to hear you are doing OK.

TM- GL for the test. BFPs seem to be coming in two's, I've got everything crossed!!

plc1805- It is really weird about your dream- I have been having dreams about spiders for years, but have never bothered to find out what they mean- if you ever discover the meaning, let me know!

Natty- Sorry you are feeling stressed. I hope that things go OK with the interview, whatever you decide.

Thanks for your encouragement this month girls, like you say, I'm quite chilled out at the moment and think that i'll be OK when AF gets here. Will defo bring some cyber wine (red, of course) to share!

[jen805]

Natty--how did your interview go?

[jen805]

Forgot to ask on my last post, but I was wondering if anyone could tell me the significance of taking a baby aspirin a day? Does it help aid in conception, or is it something that I'll have to take even while I'm pg? Thanks....

One more thing, I was wondering if anyone could tell me how to add my ticker to my signature? It says I have to cut and paste the code--when I do that, the code shows up instead of my ticker! Help!

[mmteacher]

Hello Everyone!
Jen805~ Just thought that I would let you know that I also read your post and it really hit home for me also. It is hard not to feel like everyone is looking at you and analyzing how you are feeling and wanting to talk to you and all you want to do is crawl in a hole and hide until it doesn't hurt anymore...Time will heal us though and I believe we will both be on the BFP train again soon!

Last night, I had a similar pain...We went to dinner with some friends of ours and one of the girls was pg just a few weeks before me and lucky for me, last night she was already showing. At first, it hurt to even look at her-but eventually I was able to let it go....and then the unthinkable, right in front of me (and yes she knew I m/c) she actually started complaining about being pregnant and about growing fat and about what was she going to do with two kids now!!! I was so outraged and screaming on the inside and yet I had to stand there and try to smile...My DH and I got in the car and he immediately let me know that he had heard it too and that he was sorry...we were all going to our house and I told him if she complains one more time, I was going to have to say something because it was hurting my feelings....Back at the house, she didn't complain but the conversation was all about babies on and on-I almost felt like she was rubbing my face in it...It;s funny how some people are so caring and others are just downright insensitive...I was happy for her to go home at the end of the night but as a group, we did end up having a good time playing Apples to Apples (a fun group party game if you have never played). Thanks for letting me vent!!!!

On the symptoms side of things, I feel like there still might be a chance for me this month...I had bleeding light at 4dpo and then a little more on 5-7 and now it has stopped...I have some tightness in my abdomen and breasts are just slightly sore so I am really hoping maybe I will get a BFP-no testing until next Saturday-if I can help it...

Congratulations and Good luck to JMG and Laura-I hope your blood tests are big healthy numbers!