TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ April 08

[MistyFying]

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[AJC]

Trac - CONGRATULATIONS Here's to a happy, healthy & enjoyable pregnancy for you!!!

Wow - that is so exciting. We seem to be getting at least 1 BFP in here per month now!

[jen805]

Trac--Yeah! Congratulations on your BFP! Take extra special care of yourself right now! Wishing you a healthy, happy pregnancy!

nicksterUK--Good luck with your ultrasound next week! Let us know what you find out!

Canary--I'm hoping you're wrong about not being pg! Good luck!

bettyboop--Glad to hear your op went well! Take it easy!

AJC--Yes, it's a bummer about AF. On a positive note, though, I've got it figured out on my calendar when I should be O'ing. I told my DF that he'll be happy from the 7th through the 20th (just to make sure we cover all the possible days!).

Magda--Thanks, I'll make sure I check out Fertility Friend for the charting! I'm so happy for you for your BFP! I don't blame you for not wanting to tell people right away. I learned that mistake the hard way, I won't be telling anyone right away when the time comes for me! I think you should stay away from your so-called "friend" for a while! No friend would say that to you! She must be a desperately unhappy person to try to bring you down like that. I mean, who needs enemies when you've got friends like that? Stay focused on the positive right now--you got a BFP!!!! Yeah!

[fiona264]

Congratulations Trac

[mmteacher]

Congratulations Trac-Yeah for you!!!!!!

[tempus moriendi]

I'm an emotional wreck waiting to test tomorrow. But I've been an emotional wreck before, and it's not fatal...

Trac73: congratulations!! That's wonderful!! I'll be praying for you!!

Magda: we'll give you emotional support, even if no one else will

AJC: GL to you too!

bettyboop: still keeping fingers crossed!!

nicksterUK: I"m so, so happy for you!

[Emmy-Lou]

Congrats Trac....hopefully I might be joining you soon if alls gone well this cycle..

Hello to all..short and sweet i know but i do read your posts..take care

[Magda]

AJC: GL with O'g tomorrow.

Bettyboop: I am so happy op went well. You will see you will soon see a BFP.

Canary: You still have 8 days before AF shows. I did not show any symptoms that early so, it is not over until AF shows. I am rooting for you hun.

PLC1805: Yeah actually this friend has been mine and my cousin's friend since we were kids, she is like family now. But she definately is a very envious person always comparing her life to others. And you are right I need to avoid her like the plaque.

NicksterUK: Way to go you passed a milestone, I can't wait for that. I am so happy you get to see your baby on Thursday. Yeah!!!!

Trac73; I can't believe a friend would say something like that either you think that after so many years of knowing this girl and putting up with all the comments year after year, that this wouldn't bother me but it hurt.

Anyways, CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! I know you must be beside yourself with joy right now. May you have a very healthy and happy Christmas present too.

[Trac73]

Hello EVERYONE

Thankyou betty, plc1850, AJC,Jen, Fiona, MM, Tempus, emmy-lou, Madga for your best wishes and congrats it really is appreciate knowing that all you lovely ladies are out there supporting us all. What a great team we all are
Tempus - Looking forward to hearing your results and joining me with a BFP, we can go through this together.
Canary -As they sya it is not over until AF arrives

AFM - Well i have rang my parents and they are absolutely over the moon. LIke i said to my DAD this is a positive thing for our family and what a great Christmas bundle of joy we will have. My Inlaws are also happy. As for my sister well she is excited as she is not able to have anymore babies and she is pleased that we are able too . I have made my first appointment with DR on Tuesday to see what he says as i really want to be monitored well this time. I also want to know if it is too early to go to an OB yet? I am still amazed that this has happened as we forgot when i O'd this month let alone charted, it is amazing what happens when you are able to not focus on it look at me.

Hoping for more BFP this month

[Baby Angels]

Goodness me.... we started a new thread and no one covered it with dust yet......



Now Trac.... Huge Congrats

Nickster.....Ohhh girl I am soooooo thrilled for you. Twins.... well I loved having twins.... I spoke with both of them everyday. Believe me... my tummy was HUGE at 10 weeks and I sooooooo LOVE the fact that you have gotten past. Wait till you go shopping and look at the twin prams... or twin cots.... Ohhhh talk about mind blowing. I remember standing there infront of this twin pram just unable to move... just stairing at it..... Let me know as soon as you know.

Birthday Buddy..... hey its gettin closer girl.... I have to say I m starting to stress..... I'm 39 next month and I m stressin...... stressin because its like it puts me on the down hill to 40 without any brakes...... at 38 your still going uphill....39 and your now very quickly heading to the 40..... Oh well... I m sure I ll be fine....... just need to remember..... breath in..... breath out... breath in... breath out.... and keep repeating step one and two.

Hi to everyone else.... and best of best of luck to everyone

[Natty]

Hi Ladies

Trac - congratulations hun! Your friend must be jealous in some way to make such hurful comments.

Angelbabies - who was it that said 40 was the new 30? Your not over until its over. My Grandmother had my Dad at age 45 in the middle of the second world war and her three other children were 24, 18 and 16 respectively. You have still got plenty of time!

Magda - how are you going?

I have been feeling pretty flat. I havent really been feeling pregnant at all. No sore BBs, no nausea etc so I rang the midwife and they are now doing bloods to see if my hormone levels are going up ok. I wont know until Monday so I guess I am going to feel flat until then. I thought when I fell pregnant again I would feel so happy but all I feel is apprehension and I am so worried that I dont feel pregnant this time. I am going for a job interview on Monday for a job that is being developed for me and I keep thinking I will only take it if this baby doesnt stick and I hate myself for even thinking this way. I keep thinking maybe its womens intuition that I dont feel positive but I am hoping against all hope that I am just being negative and that everything will be ok.

Anyway, I better go. DD has tonisilitis so just wants cuddles (which is a really good thing for me!).

Hope you are all ok and that April sees lots of BFPs!!!!

[jen805]

tempus moriendi--Good luck on your testing! You're in my thoughts...

Natty--I know it seems impossible, but you really have to try not to stress right now! It's still early on, so it's probably very normal to not "feel" anything yet. I can sympathize with your apprehension, and completely understand that you just don't want to get your hopes up. For me, AF still kickin' and screamin', and I'm still apprehensive about how I'll feel when I do become pg! Sending you POSITIVE sticky vibes! Good luck on your hormone levels, and take all the cuddles you can get!

[Canary]

I am sitting here with a HUGE grin on my face,
Congratulations Trac!!

As for you, Nickster, that's so exciting- possibly twins- wahey! Of course, a healthy bub and a healthy you are the important things, so it is great to hear you are doing OK.

TM- GL for the test. BFPs seem to be coming in two's, I've got everything crossed!!

plc1805- It is really weird about your dream- I have been having dreams about spiders for years, but have never bothered to find out what they mean- if you ever discover the meaning, let me know!

Natty- Sorry you are feeling stressed. I hope that things go OK with the interview, whatever you decide.

Thanks for your encouragement this month girls, like you say, I'm quite chilled out at the moment and think that i'll be OK when AF gets here. Will defo bring some cyber wine (red, of course) to share!

[bettyboop]

tempus fingers crossed for you, and everyone else about to test.

[mollycat]

Trac - congratulations what a wonderful christmas present.
Nickster - possibly twins you've got so much love to share, can tell that by the way you "talk" to us -
Betty - glad the op went well - told you that you would have it. Now the next mission is to get a BFP
Natty - hope your test comes back great - stop stressing you won't be flat for very long - in a few months time you'll be out shopping for some new clothes .... oh...retail therapy....
Angel Babies - glad you're still around, don't you worry about your age, cause then I'll have to worry about being right behind you. I'll be 38 in 11 days time, i think that's scary enough
to all the others with wishing you all the best
and for the rest of us

Canary - you're too slow I just opened the cyber wine - can't have too much though, i start work in half hour and need to drive today.

[Katiegirl]

Hi all - I will post more later but I wanted to send a big congratulations to Trac!!! I hope the next months pass with happily. We are all on this journey together.

Tempus - good luck with testing. I have my fingers crossed for you and will say a special prayer.

Will be back later with more personals but have to rush off to a meeting.

[Anthonysmom]

hey ladies - just want ed to say Yeah for Trac

and Nickster

I love all the good news in here.

barbara

[plc1805]

Hey ladies!!!!! Well if it's not one thing it's another. Yesterday I had strong heart palps for 20 mins and went to doc who suggested I get attached to a monitor for 24 hrs. So that's what I did this morning and I now have wires everywhere til tomorrow morning - so annoying. Just don't want anything standing in my way when we can finally TTC - sigh!

First of all, bday buddy, c'mon hun, that's not like you. Don't you know everyone is saying 40 is like the new 30. So by my calcs, ur only turning 29 . Breathe in and out and do whatever but get back to positivity hun cos so many women are becoming mums for the first time in their 40's. As long as you and DH have got that blanket of love happening, then there is hope for you for a good long while to come. If I make some cake, will that help? I'll make ur favorite - what would you like? Bottom line is - you can have an off day here or there but then gotta get back to some positive motivation....

Tempus - how r u doing hun? Remember we're all sitting on ur shoulder (cos we are all feather-weights ) keeping an eye out for you. Let us know how things are.....

Canary - will def keep u posted re dream - the good thing in it was thatmy deceased grandma was in it (whom I was very very close to) and she was handing me the the spray for the spiders - makes me think she is protecting me from whatever the dream might be suggesting - who knows? Btw, when is AF due hun?

Natty - take care sweet and try to keep strong and positive. I never did have pg symptoms with DS apart from mild nausea maybe a couple of times later in 1st trimester. Huge hugs hun - gotta believe ul be fine!

Hello to every other lovely lady in here - ur each worth a mountain of gold to me! Let's get some more in here!!!